Coaching
infuse your life with soul & aliveness
Soul-Based
Through the process of soul-based coaching, you create your life as a living work of art that represents who you are at your core. You come home to yourself, to your people, and to the contributions you are here to make.
Coaching helps you develop awareness and creating change in areas of life where you may feel stuck, lost, or disempowered. In the powerful container of the coaching relationship, you are held and supported as you to listen deeply to the longings of your soul. Together, we will consistently tend these longings, developing the practical rituals and practices that birth your longings into reality.
My approach to coaching goes beyond orienting toward happiness or success. Yes, those things might happen along the way, but they are more by-products than the primary focus of our process.
So what is soul-based coaching really about?
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It’s about growing trust with your inner knowing as the compass that can guide you through all of Life’s seasons, highs and lows
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It’s about remembering your innate worthiness to need what you need, want what you want, and be who you are—and working through any worthiness blocks or wobbles you might have
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It’s about taking 100% responsibility (without self-blame or shame!) for the life you are living
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It’s about cultivating deep personal integrity that allows you to live in alignment with your values
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It’s about tapping into the powerful potential of your relationships so that they become a conduit of empowerment and aliveness and support you in bringing your unique contributions to your communities
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It’s about navigating your way through challenges or transitions you may not have chosen, and finding your seat of power, even in the face of outcomes you don’t want
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It’s about harnessing the power of your body, your emotions, and your menstrual cycle (if you have one) to embody your values and your most meaningful contributions to the world
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It’s about maturing to the next level of your personal growth and development
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It's about integrating all parts of yourself and creating raw harmony in your inner and outer worlds
Above all, coaching is about infusing your life with the flow of creativity, soul, and aliveness that lives within you.
The Process
First, we’ll identify where you want to go.
What are your longings? What are your big, bold, juicy desires for yourself? For your relationships? For what you want to contribute to this world? What are you reaching for?
Next, we’ll look at where you are now.
The threads of what you are wanting to create are always present in your life; you might just need some help identifying them. We want to get you intimately connected to the pulse of aliveness within you. We want to listen to where you already are.
Finally, we’ll co-create stepping stones forward.
These will be small steps you can engage with regularly that help you build the life you want. We'll integrate a number of psychological and body-based tools with deep attunement to what your soul is calling for. Until, stitch by stitch, you see the whole tapestry of your life coming together.
Modalities
We will weave in a myriad of techniques to create a rhythm that works for your unique needs and circumstances. Some of the modalities that will inform our work include:
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Do you take insurance?For a variety of reasons, I do not directly contract with insurance providers in my private practice. If your insurance provider offers out-of-network coverage, I can provide you with the documentation you need to submit for reimbursement. Please call your insurance provider and ask them about out-of-network benefits for psychotherapy. Some questions you might ask: What are my mental health benefits? How many therapy sessions does my plan cover? What is the coverage amount per session? How much does my insurance pay for an out-of-network psychotherapy provider? Is approval or referral required from my primary care physician? Would I need a diagnosis in order to receive reimbursement?
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Can I work with you if I don't live in Colorado?Yes. If you live outside of the state of Colorado, we can work together remotely in a coaching context. If you are interested in working with me for psychotherapy and you live out of state, we may be able to work together as the Counseling Compact comes into effect over the next few months. Please reach out for more information if this is you.
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What is the difference between coaching and psychotherapy?Although both coaching and psychotherapy utilize knowledge of neuroscience, relationships, behavior, motivation, change, and interactive counseling techniques, the two activities have very different purposes, goals, areas of focus and emphasis, and levels of professional responsibility. Psychotherapy focuses on identifying, diagnosing and treating mental health issues within a professional relationship designed to help clients alleviate symptoms, understand motivations, and change behaviors that may interfere with effective emotional, social or intellectual functioning. Psychotherapy generally involves an intensive intake process, discussion of intimate personal information and may lead to feelings of vulnerability on the part of the client. This vulnerability often leads to a power differential between therapist and client, which necessitates a greater level of professional and fiduciary responsibility on the part of your therapist. Additionally, psychotherapy is a health care service and is often reimbursable through health insurance policies, which is not true for coaching. Coaching focuses on goal setting, psychoeducation, mindfulness skills, relationship & communication skills, and supporting you in finding answers and the pathway forward from your own inner knowing. Coaching utilizes personal strategic planning, values clarification, brainstorming, motivational counseling, and other counseling techniques. However, in contrast to psychotherapy, coaching does NOT involve diagnosis, testing, assessment, or treatment of mental health disorders. In addition, the relationship between us in the coaching context is designed to avoid the power differentials that occur in the psychotherapy relationship. Instead, the relationship is designed to be a relationship among equals – you provide the information about your goals, interests, and issues to be addressed and we work together to create a plan for achieving those goals and addressing the issues. Coaching might be the right option for you if: You already a robust network of resources you feel comfortable leaning on You have a solid level of stability in your life You are looking to focus on growth in the future You are looking for support crossing a particular threshold in your life You live outside of the state of Colorado Psychotherapy might be the right option for you if: You are looking to build up your mental health stability You are looking to process trauma, grief, or other difficult events of the past You are looking to receive reimbursement through insurance You would like a diagnosis You live in the state of Colorado If you're not sure what's right for you, please reach out and we can discuss more together.
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How long do you typically work with clients?It depends. Some clients have found what they needed within six sessions; some clients have stayed with me for years; and most fall somewhere in between. Ultimately, it is always up to you. If this is a concern, I encourage you to commit to a set number of sessions, typically around ten, and then assess if you are receiving value from the process of inner work.
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Where do you see clients?Currently I am practicing primarily online via Zoom. If you live in the Denver/Boulder area, I have an office for in-person sessions in Central Boulder. We also have the option of meeting at an outdoor location for a walking session or other nature-based exploration.
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Will I receive a diagnosis?Only if you want one. In my psychotherapy practice, I do not automatically give every client a diagnosis. However, you may be interested in receiving a diagnosis for a variety of reasons: insurance needs; validation; understanding your mental health in a broader context--and in this case, I am happy to discuss and provide you with a diagnosis. I do not provide diagnosis in my coaching practice.
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What are your rates?My rates are $150 per 55-minute session (typical for individual therapy or coaching) and $225 per 85-minute session (typical for couples therapy; occasionally some folks also prefer the longer format for EMDR.)
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Attachment TheoryConnect to the deep wisdom that lives in each emotion (those labeled both "positive" and "negative") Learn to act upon this wisdom without suppressing your emotions nor expressing them in ways that feel out of control Explore the connection between emotions and your needs/boundaries
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Depth PsychologyExplore the motivations, parts, that may fall below the surface of conscious awareness Connect with powerful tools of dream work, metaphor, ritual, and imagery Develop your trust with the Wild Unknown
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Cycles & CeremonyFollow the rhythms that work best for your brain and body Explore your style of moving through beginnings, middles, and endings Mark the transitions of your life -- large or small, inner or outer -- with meaningful ceremony
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Developmental FrameworksUnderstand your soul's journey in the context of models of human growth and development Explore how you can move toward the next level of development for your body and soul
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Body AwarenessDevelop your felt sense of what it's like to be in your body Tap into the wisdom in your body's sensations, impulses, movements Identify your needs and boundaries as they appear through your body experience
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Emotional IntegrationConnect to the deep wisdom that lives in each emotion (those labeled both "positive" and "negative") Learn to act upon this wisdom without suppressing your emotions nor expressing them in ways that feel out of control Explore the connection between emotions and your needs/boundaries
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Neurobiology & RegulationDevelop tools to understand how your nervous system works Incorporate practical, body- and soul-based tools for finding your way back to aliveness, even in the face of feeling stuck or disempowered
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Nature-Based WorkExplore your connection to Nature as a resource of nourishment and inspiration Uncover hidden or long-forgotten parts of yourself that are longing to come Home Engage your relationship with Nature as a way to develop trust with yourself
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Inner KnowingBecome the primary authority on your own inner world and experience Practice using your inner knowing as a compass that navigates you from one step to another Embody your power and your sovereignty as you navigate Life
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Worthiness & WholenessConnect with all parts of yourself and integrate them toward inner wholeness Remember the innate worthiness you were born with: no more or less worthy than anyone else Explore and heal any worthiness blocks you may still be carrying with you
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Do you take insurance?For a variety of reasons, I do not directly contract with insurance providers in my private practice. If your insurance provider offers out-of-network coverage, I can provide you with the documentation you need to submit for reimbursement. Please call your insurance provider and ask them about out-of-network benefits for psychotherapy. Some questions you might ask: What are my mental health benefits? How many therapy sessions does my plan cover? What is the coverage amount per session? How much does my insurance pay for an out-of-network psychotherapy provider? Is approval or referral required from my primary care physician? Would I need a diagnosis in order to receive reimbursement?
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Can I work with you if I don't live in Colorado?Yes. If you live outside of the state of Colorado, we can work together remotely in a coaching context. If you are interested in working with me for psychotherapy and you live out of state, we may be able to work together as the Counseling Compact comes into effect over the next few months. Please reach out for more information if this is you.
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What is the difference between coaching and psychotherapy?Although both coaching and psychotherapy utilize knowledge of neuroscience, relationships, behavior, motivation, change, and interactive counseling techniques, the two activities have very different purposes, goals, areas of focus and emphasis, and levels of professional responsibility. Psychotherapy focuses on identifying, diagnosing and treating mental health issues within a professional relationship designed to help clients alleviate symptoms, understand motivations, and change behaviors that may interfere with effective emotional, social or intellectual functioning. Psychotherapy generally involves an intensive intake process, discussion of intimate personal information and may lead to feelings of vulnerability on the part of the client. This vulnerability often leads to a power differential between therapist and client, which necessitates a greater level of professional and fiduciary responsibility on the part of your therapist. Additionally, psychotherapy is a health care service and is often reimbursable through health insurance policies, which is not true for coaching. Coaching focuses on goal setting, psychoeducation, mindfulness skills, relationship & communication skills, and supporting you in finding answers and the pathway forward from your own inner knowing. Coaching utilizes personal strategic planning, values clarification, brainstorming, motivational counseling, and other counseling techniques. However, in contrast to psychotherapy, coaching does NOT involve diagnosis, testing, assessment, or treatment of mental health disorders. In addition, the relationship between us in the coaching context is designed to avoid the power differentials that occur in the psychotherapy relationship. Instead, the relationship is designed to be a relationship among equals – you provide the information about your goals, interests, and issues to be addressed and we work together to create a plan for achieving those goals and addressing the issues. Coaching might be the right option for you if: You already a robust network of resources you feel comfortable leaning on You have a solid level of stability in your life You are looking to focus on growth in the future You are looking for support crossing a particular threshold in your life You live outside of the state of Colorado Psychotherapy might be the right option for you if: You are looking to build up your mental health stability You are looking to process trauma, grief, or other difficult events of the past You are looking to receive reimbursement through insurance You would like a diagnosis You live in the state of Colorado If you're not sure what's right for you, please reach out and we can discuss more together.
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How long do you typically work with clients?It depends. Some clients have found what they needed within six sessions; some clients have stayed with me for years; and most fall somewhere in between. Ultimately, it is always up to you. If this is a concern, I encourage you to commit to a set number of sessions, typically around ten, and then assess if you are receiving value from the process of inner work.
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Where do you see clients?Currently I am practicing primarily online via Zoom. If you live in the Denver/Boulder area, I have an office for in-person sessions in Central Boulder. We also have the option of meeting at an outdoor location for a walking session or other nature-based exploration.
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Will I receive a diagnosis?Only if you want one. In my psychotherapy practice, I do not automatically give every client a diagnosis. However, you may be interested in receiving a diagnosis for a variety of reasons: insurance needs; validation; understanding your mental health in a broader context--and in this case, I am happy to discuss and provide you with a diagnosis. I do not provide diagnosis in my coaching practice.
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What are your rates?My rates are $150 per 55-minute session (typical for individual therapy or coaching) and $225 per 85-minute session (typical for couples therapy; occasionally some folks also prefer the longer format for EMDR.)
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Attachment TheoryConnect to the deep wisdom that lives in each emotion (those labeled both "positive" and "negative") Learn to act upon this wisdom without suppressing your emotions nor expressing them in ways that feel out of control Explore the connection between emotions and your needs/boundaries
-
Depth PsychologyExplore the motivations, parts, that may fall below the surface of conscious awareness Connect with powerful tools of dream work, metaphor, ritual, and imagery Develop your trust with the Wild Unknown
-
Cycles & CeremonyFollow the rhythms that work best for your brain and body Explore your style of moving through beginnings, middles, and endings Mark the transitions of your life -- large or small, inner or outer -- with meaningful ceremony
-
Developmental FrameworksUnderstand your soul's journey in the context of models of human growth and development Explore how you can move toward the next level of development for your body and soul
-
Body AwarenessDevelop your felt sense of what it's like to be in your body Tap into the wisdom in your body's sensations, impulses, movements Identify your needs and boundaries as they appear through your body experience
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Emotional IntegrationConnect to the deep wisdom that lives in each emotion (those labeled both "positive" and "negative") Learn to act upon this wisdom without suppressing your emotions nor expressing them in ways that feel out of control Explore the connection between emotions and your needs/boundaries
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Neurobiology & RegulationDevelop tools to understand how your nervous system works Incorporate practical, body- and soul-based tools for finding your way back to aliveness, even in the face of feeling stuck or disempowered
-
Nature-Based WorkExplore your connection to Nature as a resource of nourishment and inspiration Uncover hidden or long-forgotten parts of yourself that are longing to come Home Engage your relationship with Nature as a way to develop trust with yourself
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Inner KnowingBecome the primary authority on your own inner world and experience Practice using your inner knowing as a compass that navigates you from one step to another Embody your power and your sovereignty as you navigate Life
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Worthiness & WholenessConnect with all parts of yourself and integrate them toward inner wholeness Remember the innate worthiness you were born with: no more or less worthy than anyone else Explore and heal any worthiness blocks you may still be carrying with you
A Note About My Approach
As a person and as a practitioner, I tend to be skeptical of superficial quick fixes. It is simply not in my nature to be particularly oriented toward "feeling better", "quickly moving on", or avoiding the hard stuff.
This doesn't mean the process will take forever (many of my clients experience meaningful change right away), or that everything is serious all the time (I belly-laugh with my clients during session on the regular). It also doesn't mean we have to rush. We can take it at just the right pace for your brain and body, and you have so much autonomy and choice in what the process looks like. Yet if you say Yes to working with me, my hope and intention is that you are saying Yes to healing and thriving at the deepest level, body and mind and soul.
I get that this might seem like magical nonsense to you right now. I get that it takes great courage to reach for a way of being you long for but have not yet experienced. You'll know if the Yes is right for you.